Oct 21 2021
Oct 16 2021
Yesterday someone on Linkedin a virologist of 30 years, he claims, thought that I was uninformed and spreading a lot of lies regarding today’s largest issue today, that of the so-called vaccine. One needs to first of understand that a vaccine is a vaccine when there are antibodies either dead or alive in the injected material. This is not true in the case of the COVID injections. Instead, there is a bit of RNA that has been placed into the injectable material from an animal that produces a reaction to the spike in the COVID-19 illness thus allowing the illness should it have developed – operative word “should” making the symptoms of the disease much less problematic to the host with the virus (meaning the person).
Dr. Malane goes into great detail in how this injectable was made, and why it is unethical to force it onto every person based on his expertise in developing vaccines and being the developer of the technology that was wrongfully used to test for COVID-19 and why that is the case.
He explains the mis-information out there in the government and the press and why that is so, and most importantly why he continues to speak his truth which may very well be your truth if you are willing to take the 53 minutes to listen to his rather important message as to why we need to be much more upfront with what is truly going on from the viewpoint of what medical ethics are and why they matter.
This is the best interview to date that I have heard on the situation based on what a depth of knowledge that few others have for many reasons which you will find out when he explains his scientific backround through the decades. It speaks about the geopolitics involved which is very important to truly understand why what is going on is going on inside the larger paradigm of the non-governmental organizations, the members of which were never elected by anyone to be forcing mandates on any country whatsoever along with the misinformation about the medications that were taken away from being used from those in the western world, though they were successfully used in the developing world where the injection was not affordable for them billions of people in their population.
Here is the link to what will be most eye-opening to anyone who is interested in truly understanding the much larger mechanism that is occurring today. Here is the link and please do yourself and your family the favor of listening to the entire interview so you can make a truly informed decision regarding your health and that of your family because everyone deserves to understand the larger geopolitical mechanisms that have been put into place and why your own health are being put at risk because of it.
If the link does not work for your for some reason just let me know and I will be happy to send it to your messenger, email, etc. This information NEEDS to be out there in the public without censorship, but the problem is that censorship is rampant – so much for ‘Freedom of the Press” in the USA. Think about that for a moment – you are not getting the truth because those who own the media do not want you to have this information because of their own selfish and dare I say deranged notions of what they have the ‘right’ to do for your safety because you apparently are incapable of making your own decisions.
Oct 14 2021
This question was also asked by a person on Quora. Here is how I answered the question:
I am answering this from the point of view of being a hypnotist and NLP Master Practitioner so my training is a lot different than that of a conventionally trained mental help practitioner.
I can tell you from my NLP training that one of the most important concepts we learn is that there is no such thing as a resistant client, only practitioners who need to better communicate with their client.
The reason that this is drilled into our minds is that it is all too easy to blame the client for not receiving results when it is an inflexible practitioner that is creating the problem. In these cases, it is a matter of having many different types of tools and techniques to use because different clients have different ability levels for different types of interventions. I have had a few clients that could not do certain types of NLP techniques so instead I did straight hypnotic techniques instead.
I have had some situations where my clients argued with me over certain things that I said and in some cases, they were absolutely right in that I was not understanding what they were saying in the manner in which they wanted me to understand what they were saying. So, it was on me to pull back and apologize for not understanding and then having them restate what they were saying in a different way so I could better understand them. This happens when a person is from a totally different culture from my own, or someone who is having a real hard time of it and needs me to be much more understanding because of their frustration. This is not aimed at me, it is just a reaction to the situation in which they find themselves. So, nothing is to be taken personally and all of it is to be taken as material for both of us to learn and grow from.
Now, there are times when I am working with people with substance abuse issues, usually alcoholics, when they can be belligerent, inappropriate, and in some cases unwilling to do the work. In those cases, it is best to not have taken them on as a client in the first place because they were not ready to do the work or were not good candidates for my level of work. Sometimes rehab is the answer to get them off the alcohol safely.
I have had a couple of teen clients who also were not ready to do the work which I would have been better not taking on, though I have to say that in both those cases their parents learned a lot about their kid (they were present for the Detailed Personal History to fill in the gaps the kids would not know from when they were too young to remember) and in that sense it was helpful. But, the kids were not ready to do the work. One of the parents did the session instead and worked on her own issues with her husband in that case – the basis of the problem the kid was having anyway. So, one can really never tell how things may work out – flexibility is key when it comes to working with people – that is for sure.
Thanks for asking the question because it is really not as easy to answer as one may think for the many ways that one can ‘look’ resistant, and really isn’t. It all comes under the artistry that is doing this work in the first place.
Oct 12 2021
Oct 07 2021
This was a question posted by a person on Quora, and this is the manner in which I answered it:
I have been involved in the world of mental health for almost 30 years now – both sides of the table. There is no such thing as healing just from ‘knowledge’ – it is just knowledge. The knowledge needs to be applied and that means being vulnerable enough to share what is truly going on in your life and processing whatever feelings and limiting beliefs you may have that are causing the issues that would bring you to employ a therapist in the first place.
Understand that the relationship between you and your practitioner is based on you being open and willing to do what you need to do and your practitioner’s ability to take that info and give you the ability to process whatever feelings need to be processed along with tools and techniques to better navigate your world.
Perhaps one of the better outcomes from your therapy would be able to better understand why it is that you are fearful of your therapist ‘coming close.’ What is the fear around that notion for you and how do you overcome it so that you can gain closer relationships with friends and loved ones in your own life. Therapy is a place where one learns all these things in a safe place where the learnings are generalized to the client’s/patient’s interactions with all the people with whom they interact every day.
So, this isn’t a venue for intellectualizing at all – it is a place of doing the healing work necessary to be free of whatever is burdening you enough to seek help.
I thank you for your question on behalf of anyone who may be reading it after it is posted.
Sep 30 2021
Today we are going to speak to relationships, specifically how are your relationships working for you? This came about after my introduction to spiritual teacher Caroline Corey. She challenges us to be truthful with ourselves in terms of how it is that we are living our lives – certainly very aligned with all the work that I have put out there in the world to date.
Caroline has a basis of understanding that we all need to come to regarding what it is that we truly desire for ourselves regardless of the ‘thing’ is that we are speaking of. In this case, we are speaking of relationships with those people with whom we have chosen to partner.
Unfortunately, many people ‘settle’ for the comfort of what they know making excuses to stay in the relationship. Maybe you are being taken care of financially, have a beautiful home, and yet, you are not really happy with your partner. So it takes real courage to feel into what your relationship is bringing you and what it is not bringing you.
I have a client that I have worked with who had a wonderful home with her partner. He built a pool for her behind their home, knowing that this would make her happy. However, though the pool was appreciated, there were many issues inside the communication patterns that were not at all appreciated including his endless cheating with other women. Up until we looked at the meanings behind the behavior she felt that when she walked away from the relationship she had made a mistake – and yet, she was not happy with this man – not really not only because of his endless cheating but because he did not share her values on many other parts of her life. It seemed that he would constantly find ways to sabotage her career which she had worked very hard to build, by bringing in all types of emotional turmoil taking her energy away from her work.
Now, you may not have such a large amount of issues in your relationship, however, it demonstrates how the idea of having a partner can harm one’s own life’s purpose, as was the case in this situation.
So, what do you want in your relationship with your partner? Are you able to honestly say that you are receiving it?
Do you have the freedom to be who you truly are feeling supported in living your own purpose be it a career or a stay-at-home mother? Many of my clients have partners who are uninterested in what they are doing, even though that which they are doing is a huge part of their identity, it being the purpose they have found in life. This is certainly something that I lived through myself with my ex-husband. Though he was the one who truly wanted me to find my purpose, once I found it he had no interest in it. And, yet I was to be involved in all his artistic endeavors. Luckily I liked being involved with most of his artistic endeavors, however, the relationship was one-sided and as a result, it felt unfair in terms of the activities that we did together.
Are you feeling stimulated by your partner in terms of growth and development? So many people that I work with find their partners to be rather dull, wanting to do the same things all of the time. There is never a desire to explore new places, new activities, new relationships with new people. In some cases, the screens of their lives are dictating what they do with their time which in too many cases excludes their partner’s involvement with them.
In some situations, the issues can be healed between the partners and in some cases, it is time to have the courage to move on to the unknown.
I have another client who came to me with issues of being fearful of speaking her truth with her husband because every time she did, they would get into a huge argument. During our work together she has learned how to better communicate what she really wants in a simple and easy-going way. Her relationship is much healthier for being willing to shift her communication style in a manner that her husband can hear her desires and help her to achieve them. He even wants to help her to achieve them – so it was her fear of communicating which was the issue, not her husband in this case.
If you are a person who is in a relationship that is not serving you – where you are unhappy and unfulfilled, understand that here are many reasons for this to occur. The first step is to be honest with yourself that you are unhappy and then the next step is to learn how to create a relationship that serves both you and your partner better – because all relationships do indeed take both people to work well. However, we need to know if it is really our partner that is the issue, or our inability to ask for what we want in a way that will be understood by our partner.
***For anyone who is looking to improve their current relationship or anyone who is having a tough time creating a great relationship with a significant other I am running a 3-Day Retreat “Bringing True Love to Your Primary Relationship” Oct. 2-4, 2021 at the lovely Villa Serena Holist Hotel & Retreat Center right on the water in the Dominican Republic. You can find out more about it here:
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