Jul 08 2021
Let’s Look at The Real Causes of the Increase in Mental Illness in the U.S. Today- Vol. 521, July 8, 2021
Jul 01 2021
What Does It Really Take To Work With Seriously Mentally Ill People? This Message Is For Those Looking For Care – Vol. 520, July 1, 2021
Jun 24 2021
How Does a Stage Hypnotist Make All the Volunteers Go To Sleep – Vol. 519, June 24, 2021
How Does A Stage Hypnotist Make all the Volunteers Go to sleep? Vol. 519, June 24, 2021
This was a question from a person on Quora which deserved to be answered to better understand the state of hypnosis as different from that of ‘sleep.’
The idea that hypnosis is sleep because of the Greek word ‘hypnos’ which means sleep which comes from James Braid who used the term ‘neuro-hypnotism meaning “sleep of the nerves.
Technically hypnosis is not a state of being in ‘sleep ‘because one is not in the delta level of brain wave where sleep occurs while one is in the state of hypnosis.
What is known is the hypnotic state occurs during the alpha and theta brain waves which are the same brain waves that are accessed while one is in meditation. In fact, my first hypnosis teacher, Julie Griffin taught that hypnosis was like meditation with a purpose because there is always something that the hypnotist is guiding the hypnotized individual to do.
During a stage show, the hypnotist is using means to put the volunteers into a very relaxed state – generally overcoming their conscious minds ability to function in the normal fashion putting them all into a very relaxed state that looks like ‘sleep’ which is why the state was given the term hypnosis. What is truly happening is that the volunteers are taken out of the executive function of their pre-frontal cortex (their conscious mind) and placed into their UNconscious mind which would be their amygdala where all the emotions live without the capacity to reason, rationalize or judge which is why hypnotism is a great way to solve many of the health issues most especially those of the emotions and thoughts) in clinical practice such as my own.
There are many articles that explain how hypnotism works in clinical practice right on this website.
Jun 21 2021
Claim Your Excellent Life 340 – How to Stay Sane in An Insane World
Jun 17 2021
Dealing With The Segragationalist Mentality of Society of Today – Vol. 518, June 17, 2021
Dealing With the Segragationlist Mentality of Today’s Society – Vo. 518, June 17, 2021
Unfortunately in today’s society, we have governments who are doing their best to make some people ‘good’ and some people ‘bad’ based on their behavior regarding the issues of mask-wearing, getting an injection (which has yet to be approved for safety by the FDA – and is only for ’emergency use’), and personal distancing among the issues.
The question that one needs to ask is how to comport oneself self while interacting with other human beings based on the fact that human beings need to be in a community to feel safe and emotionally healthy. We are indeed like ants and bees needing one another whether or not we like that concept. So, how do we best deal with it?
I would like to suggest to you the idea that being fearful of others is the manner in which all societal problems have begun many times leading to many types of atrocities through the ages. When we look back at history we can see how one group has denied the rights of others to overcome them. It has happened with any minority that one can think of over the ages. To believe that another human being is going to cause you harm based on faulty testing and health measures that are incapable of truly handling the situation is absurd.
Anyone who has done their homework on mask-wearing realizes that the size of a virus is so tiny that the spray that has the virus will come through them anyway. The other thing that most people do not understand is that for anyone to be infected by a virus they must have a compromised immune system in the first place. This is why 85% of those who are becoming ill are older people who have many other chronic health conditions already – the statistics are 2-3 chronic health issues is the norm. So, many of these folks are not dying of the virus so much as contracting the virus and dying with it – meaning that their ongoing heart disease, lung disease, cancer, etc are the true cause of these individuals’ deaths. The fact that the CDC chose to have all those who tested positive with the faulty test, a test that was never meant to be used to find antibodies for disease in the first place being marked as dying of this virus above any other concurrent and previous conditions states very well that this is a situation that has less to do with the virus per se and more to do with the powerful people who can make such ludicrous decisions. The sad fact of the matter is that the politicians will do anything to keep the large donations and kickbacks flowing to them from the huge companies that invest in them allowing them to keep the power and the added benefits of being in such positions. If you don’t believe me you can check out the work of Ivor Cummins, GreenMed Info, Dr. Joseph Mercola, Dr. John Bergman, and Dr. Vandana Shima among others. We have a silencing of the press of those who will not speak to the one voice that the powerful want you to hear – – so do understand that there is no longer freedom of the press in the US – and for that reason, one cannot believe what the press is saying – they are being governed by the politicians in what they can report – so you must do your own homework to get the truth behind all this chaos.
So what do you do? You keep your opinions to yourself and focus on those things in life that bring you fulfillment and happiness till the corrupt can be seen for their illegal actions which really caused a crime against the state. We have a surgeon general who takes copious amounts of Vitamin D knowing that it will help to protect him, and yet is telling the citizens of the US to stay inside their homes where they cannot get the benefits of the Vitamin from the sunshine which is the way we humans are supposed to be synthesizing it. He is pushing the vaccines. He is also grossly involved in bringing the testing for these bioweapons to China to be created because there is a law against working with them in the United States given the many times the viruses have been released into the public usually by accident – and yet this is a very harmful situation. You can find all that information detailed in Dr. Mercola’s book “The Truth About Covid-19: Exposing the Great Reset, Lockdowns, Vaccine Passports, and the New Normal’ if you truly want to know what the larger picture is behind this whole deal. Dr. Mercola explains that these viruses are a part of the Department of Defence having nothing at all to do with healthcare. So, one needs to ask the more difficult questions as to why we are embarking on bioweapons development?
One has to use one’s mind, and for many, that is a very difficult exercise indeed. Yet, till people are willing to take responsibility for themselves and the decisions they are making, nothing is going to change. I for one am not planning on moving back to the US – because from my point of view it is no longer a ‘free country’ and never really has been a kind country to many of its own citizens. The more one learns the real history of the country the more one can understand why it is not only not the greatest country that ever was – it is just as corrupt as many of those that its government falts for the very same actions it takes against others.
Jun 14 2021
Claim Your Excellent Life #339-No Need for CBD At All – The Magical Manner Your Brain Has to Overcome 3 Negative Emotions We All Experience Through Life
Jun 10 2021
Dealing With Toxic Parents – Vol. 517, June 10, 2021
Dealing With Toxic Parents – June 10, 2021
I have been working with a client who has been going through a very difficult time because his mother never can speak to him in a civil manner. She finds many different ways to blame him for things that he has never done, talks to him as if he is a child instead of an adult who has his own successful business, just knowing how to get under his skin.
The reason for this particular situation is because his mother is an alcoholic who is never under the influence, even while in a therapy session with her therapist and my client. Alcohol is a substance that allows for the inaction of the part of the brain that would stop the impulses that could cause problems. So, many times people under the influence can say many hurtful things to others. To make things worse, most of the time there is absolutely no memory of these things being said by the alcoholic.
So, how does one deal with a parent with this condition. Well, it is easier for someone who is living out on their own who can limit the interactions and even the manner in which the interactions could be done. In the case of my client I brought out the reality that his mother was never going to be able to interact with him in a humble and loving manner, not because she did not want to, rather because she is dealing with an illness that will not allow her to act in such a manner toward him. Till she makes the decision to overcome her abuse of alcohol, nothing is going to change. This is true of anyone who is dealing with a person who has not only alcohol issues, but anyone with substance abuse and addition issues where the substance is really causing the brain to dysfunction. With that in mind, I told him to stop the emotional harm to himself by texting her every so often to see that she is still alive and to just note that she responded, without necessarily reading her response because her responses trigger him as well. However, it is an easier way to deal with the situation since he won’t have to recall the image of her or the tone of voice being used which would be the case either over the phone or in person. He found that even with the therapist there to help advocate for him, it was still a very difficult experience. However, the more important knowledge he gained, was that his mother was toxic to him and though it saddens him, that it is best for him to do what he can for his own mental health since she has made the decision to continue her drinking.
For a younger person who is living in a parents home who has this problem, the best way to deal with it is to spend as little time in the environment with the alcoholic as possible. Find all sorts of after school activities to be involved with and hang out with your friends during the weekend as much as you can. Perhaps you have a friend that has parents whom you trust and in whose home you feel safe – make that your safe haven.
Learning: These are never easy situations to contend with, however the most important thing that one needs to know while dealing with parents with substance abuse or addictions is that they have a serious health problem that shows up in emotionally dysfunctional ways. To separate yourself from the person because their problem is NOT your problem – meaning that you did not cause their problem. And, to recognize the fact that there is really nothing you can do to change them – they have to make that choice on their own. So, it is in your best interest to separate yourself from them to the best of your ability given your particular circumstances. The positive outcome for many in this situation is that they realize that they would rather not have any association with mind altering substances knowing the outcome having lived through that of a loved one.