176:Reclaiming Your Serenity in 5 Easy Steps

Here are 5 ways to bring peace to your life.

 

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What Do You Really Want For Christmas This Year?

What Do you Really Want For Christmas this Year? – Vol. 393, December 22, 2016

Well, I personally am not a Christian. However, Christmas time is attached to those feelings of what you would like to receive from others, including seeing the loving adoring faces of those for whom you purchased those thoughtfully chosen gifts you gave.

Being a 55 year old woman, I have a different idea of the “gifts” given and received then the masses so attached to the “buying season,” which has already begun, this being the day after Thanksgiving, as I write this weblog. With many people going through the malls, hearing the Christmas Carols, or perhaps purchasing goods online to give as gifts, I no longer endeavor to take part of this aspect of the Christmas season. In fact, I have a philosophy of life that says, that one is to give gifts from the heart throughout the year as I feel moved to do so. So, that is what I do.

So, what are the gifts that I want to receive in the more abstract form?

First, I would love to finally have the work completed for my new programs, having dealt with all the unfortunate events that took my time and attention away from them these last couple of weeks.

Second, I would love to spend time with those that I find fun and enjoyable, inspired and action oriented in their lives. I was lucky enough to spend Thanksgiving with a group of such people, who taught me so many important facts, helpful with my own work. It was wonderful to be in such company. I don’t know if I shall ever see these people again, they being friends and relatives of the person who invited me to spend Thanksgiving with her. However, it is that kind of company that I most enjoy, if I am going to spend my time in conversation.

Third, to have time and space to enjoy my friends and relatives both in person if they are local, or over the phone. Just today, the day after Thanksgiving, I finally received a call back from a long time friend who helped me through some difficult times in the past, as I helped him. He said the time difference is a challenge because it’s easiest for him to call first thing in the morning, but that would be 5 AM out here. He said if someone called him at that hour he would be “pissed” so, he tries to be mindful of this situation. I do appreciate it, because though I do sometimes wake up early, being on the phone at 5 AM is quite a stretch for me, not being a morning person in the first place.

Fourth, time alone to think and create, read and write, and do my self hypnosis – which is my way of clearing my own head, creating what I desire in my future and healing old wounds as best I can, on my own. These are sacred times for me, and as such, I do my best to fit them in each morning before I interact with anyone. However, that doesn’t always happen. During the holiday season, while everyone else is busy going to relatives and friends houses to exchange gifts and do the Americanized rituals, I would much prefer to stay home and just relax doing what I want to do. The days of going to two or more homes to exchange gifts, trying to be polite when the situation may not have warranted it, and feeling worn out for the whole ordeal, are over or me.For this I am most grateful. It isn’t that I didn’t enjoy some of the holiday events I attended. It is more that I resented having to purchase gifts for people I only saw that one day of the year who never made time to spend more time with me and my ex-husband. I resented having to do things on other peoples’ time lines and most of all I hated having big stupid dogs being brought to he host’s home to get into all the food on the coffee table because people don’t leave their animals at home. Also, being one that has zero desire to watch videos, football games or the general idiocy on the television, I am glad to not have to deal with that any longer.

In the midst of these reflections, I’ve come to appreciate the simplicity and authenticity of genuine connections. In the spirit of gift-giving, I’ve found solace in embracing unique and thoughtful presents that resonate with personal meaning, rather than succumbing to societal pressures or traditional norms. One such delightful discovery has been the joy of exchanging face on socks—a quirky and endearing way to celebrate relationships. This whimsical trend allows me to cherish moments spent with loved ones while indulging in my desire for genuine, heartfelt gifts. As I slip into these personalized treasures, adorned with the faces of cherished friends and family, I am reminded of the warmth of these relationships and the comfort of being true to myself amidst the holiday rush. In these small, delightful tokens, I find the essence of what gift-giving should truly be—a genuine expression of love and connection.

Over time situations change. I do have family on the east coast, without a desire to see them over the holiday season of all time. I no longer have a spouse’s family to share the holiday with, no longer being married. And quite honestly, I don’t miss any of it. Not really. Sure, there was some good homemade food to be enjoyed, but the hassle of the rest of it, wasn’t worth the energy put forth for me.

So, what do you want for Christmas this year? I sincerely hope it goes beyond the proverbial toys you may receive. Look into your own heart, be honest and make that your Christmas gift to yourself. Your worth it!

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175: Learnings From Healing a Relationship with One of My Sisters

Master Hypnotist Suzanne Kellner-Zinck get personal and authentic about her own healing regarding her relationship with her sister.

 

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You Are What You Eat: Here’s The Real Deal

 You Are What You Eat: Here’s The Real Deal – Vol. 392, December 15, 2016

If you are having issues regarding inflammation i.e. pain, irritability, distractibility, “fuzzy brain” and lack of energy, the food you eat can have everything to do with how you are feeling. Given the very poor quality our fruits and vegetables, given the poor soil and insecticides put on them, it is very difficult for one to get the nutrition that one requires for the body to function healthfully.

According to Dr. Mercola, who writes one of the most widely read weblogs on health and nutrition, it is our government’s dietary guidelines that lead to the obesity epidemic we are now experiencing.

In 1965, the average American got 40% of their calories from carbohydrates and 40% of their calories from fat.

By 2010 the guidelines called for more carbohydrates and dropping fat consumption to below 35%, while increasing carbohydrates to 55 to 65% of the diet. The problem with this is that not all carbohydrates are equal in terms of nutritional value. Unfortunately, most people eat processed grains such as: pasta, rice, bread, potatoes and other starchy vegetables instead of the fibrous carbohydrates found in non-starchy fruits and vegetables. The problem with this is that it is the non-starchy, fibrous fruits and vegetables that break down into the short chain fatty acids, that nourish your body. More importantly they are also the fuel for the beneficial bacteria in your colon (large intestine).

Make sure that the carbohydrates that you eat contain fiber. Choose those fruits and vegetables that have a rich color to them for the beta-Carsten and other important antioxidants they contain.

Another issue is the genetically modified foods that are proliferating our food stores. Corn, soy products and wheat are causing all sorts of inflammatory problems in a large part of the population. High fructose corn syrup is one of the worst offenders because our body has no idea in how to use it. Unfortunately, because it is so inexpensive to manufacture, it has replaced the cane sugar that was once in products such as soda, salad dressing, many of the condiments we use, and the processed foods one purchase in boxes and bags. One needs to stay away from soybean oil, vegetable oil, and safflower oil because of their very high level of omega 6 fatty acids, which Dr. Mercola believes has caused more harm then the overall increase in carbohydrate consumption.

Instead, eat healthy fats of which 50% of your calories should come. Eat nuts, seeds, coconut oil and coconut products, avocados, olives and olive oil, whole eggs, chocolate made from cacao (instead of “cocoa”) organ meats, and dairy (so long as it is grass fed and antibiotic free). Fat is needed for your brain which is 70% fat, your eyes and your nerves which also have a large amount of fat in them, allowing them to function well.

More then half of Americans are pre-diabetic or diabetic. Two-thirds of Americans are over weight.

So, what do you do? Eat “real food”, that stuff that comes from the original source, from the ground or the animal. Stay away from all processed foods, creating your food from one item foods and combining them as people have done through the ages to create tasty, healthy food.

 

Do your best to get foods that haven’t been overly sprayed with insecticides. Organic is best because the farmers aren’t allowed to use insecticides and antibiotics in the production of the food. However, organic food can be quite expensive, so save it for the foods that have very thin skins and for your meat sources. When you purchase fish, do the best you can to buy “wild caught” because the farm raised fish are given grains to feed on instead of their natural diet, causing humans significant health problems. Unfortunately it was reported a while back that fish manufacturers lie about the source of the fish, so it is any one’s guess whether or not that which is labeled “wild caught” actually was caught in the wild.

Water, is another issue, where too many people are not drinking enough water, walking around dehydrated without realizing it. If you are feeling hungry, it may be that you are really thirsty instead. Have a bottle of water with you at all times. The water that you get in the form of water saturated fruits and vegetables count as well such as: watermelon, berries, lettuce, celery, etc.

If you are drinking water, be mindful of the fact that even through our tap water is processed, that with all the medicines that end up down the toilet, the pesticides that end up in the rivers and lakes and the many heavy metals from manufacturing that end up in our natural water reserves, it is best to purchase a filter to get rid of all that crud. You can get one that goes into a pitcher or one that attaches to your faucet without spending a ton of money.

If you are more mindful of the foods that you are eating, and eating the correct amount of the right nutrients, you will find yourself losing unwanted weight, having much more energy throughout your day, eating satiating foods with healthy fat. You find as one of my clients realized, you skin becoming smooth healthy and glowing, just by getting rid of her soda habit alone.

I know when I increased the healthy fats that I ate, got rid of all the processed foods I had been eating, stopped eating any sort of “fast food” and increased my activity just a little bit – like 20 minutes of stretching and swimming four times a week, my weight came off without an issue. Granted, I only had to drop 10 pounds, those 10 pounds came off in a matter of 8 weeks time – not bad in the world of weight loss!

Try it for yourself and find your true health through your food. Take the time to read the labels of that which you buy, always being mindful of how you go about cooking it. Fresh food is healthier for you, as well as being less expensive to purchase then over priced garbage you will purchase at a place like Starbucks, and many of the chain restaurants you may be frequenting.

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How About a Pre-Nup Check-up For Those Thinking of Getting Married Soon

Thinking of Getting Married? How about a Pre-Nup Check Up?

So, you are “in love” and believe that you found “the one” at long last. However, with the cost of weddings being what they are, and the cost of a divorce being much higher, maybe it would be worth the investment to make sure that you and your beloved are a healthy match, BEFORE you commingle your funds, purchasing a home together and/or raising a kid or two together.

Because, as you know, people get married every day, and then at some point, sometimes in only a few months time, they realize that they made a HUGE mistake. Maybe you know some people that fit that profile.

You don’t want that to be you, do you? So, how about you both get a “Pre-Nlp, Check-Up?”

to make sure that both of you are on the same page regarding what you want in your relationship
to make sure that you have the same values in terms of finances, desire to have children and how to raise those children
to make sure that the cultures that you are from can be melded together and work well
to make sure any previous relationships that didn’t work so well, have been healed
to make sure that you are not getting involved with a person that is much different in reality then perhaps your hormones are allowing you to see, especially if it is a relationship less then 6 months old
to make sure that you clear up any emotional issues that you may have individually and as a couple, that may get in the way of your marital bliss
to make sure that you are doing what is in the best interest of both of you, even if that means not getting married

I came up with this idea because I have had so many clients come to me after they found out they had been married to people who were sociopaths, alcoholics or drug addicts, had eating disorders, or were just so stuck in their past, but never paid any mind even AFTER they saw the “red flags.”

On the opposite end of things, I had a wonderful experience with a client I had many years ago who saw me for an eating disorder. A few years later she wrote to ask me if her fiancé could come in to deal with an issue he had regarding his academic career. I agreed and the outcome was a very happily married couple, aligned in their values and still in love seven years later. This was one of the best wedding gifts they gave one another. They were able to clear up their individual issues before their marriage. In this case, there weren’t any issues between them as a couple.

Additionally, they were able to clear up their issues with her parents, who wanted them to have a huge wedding in a castle on the ocean. The couple, however were totally uninterested in a huge over blown affair. All they wanted was a quaint wedding at a nearby nature reserve. In the end, that is exactly what they had for their wedding, paid for by themselves to keep the parents from taking control of their day.

So, why don’t you empower yourselves to take care of any problems before they ruin your marital bliss? The investment is well worth it given the clients I see who didn’t really know their partners well enough before marrying, sometimes even with a decade of dating before making the marital commitment. I don’t want to see that happen to you, and I don’t believe you do either.

Give me a call to find out more.

Call Suzanne Kellner-Zinck of Dawning Visions Hypnosis Inc. at: 781-315-1719
I look forward to helping you create amazing relationships in your lives.

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174:Are You Living in Fear or Freedom – Brandon Buchard’s Great Question For All of Us

Does fear or freedom rule your life? Learn about both.

 

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How About a Body Reset? This is For Those of Us Who See & Feel Ourselves Aging – Carolyn Hansen’s W

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How About a Body Reset? This is For Those of Us Who See & Feel Ourselves Aging – Carolyn Hansen’s Way – Vol. 391, December 8, 2016

For most of us, our families have been the primary focus of our lives. If you have children, you know how great they can be, and how much they can take out of you, needing to be ever present to their needs and concerns.

For others of us, like myself, who never had a family of their own, you may have had to deal with your family of origin, meaning siblings, their kids and of course your aging parents. Most of the time these items come in while you are busy figuring out your own life. And then before you know it, you are in your mid 40’s or 50’s wondering where in the hell your life went and why it is that you don’t have the energy you once did, the flexibility you once had or the strength of will, or of body.

So let’s gain control of our lives back:

1. Get in touch with yourself: Are you neglecting your own needs for appropriate time alone, exercise to get that body functioning the way it can, eating healthy 1 item foods, and getting the rest you require? A healthy body leads to a healthy mind, bringing mental clarity and emotional stability.

2. The “Journey to Health & Wellness” goes like this according to Carolyn Hansen”

Get proper activity in – move your body because it wasn’t ever designed to sit for several hours a day.
Get your mind and body stronger
Sleep better
Stress managed
Feel better
Motivation to eat better
More energy
More motivated and more able to be physically active
Healthy, Happy, slim, Feel-Good, Disease Proof Body
Total Physical, Mental & Emotional Wellness

Lissa Rankin, M.D. realized that the number of supplements one could afford to take, had little impact on her patients from Beverly Hills. Why? Because they were all stressed out. It is stress that is bringing on illness of whatever type you may be experiencing, so it is best to get that stress under control. If you are feeling depressed, depleted, anxious or negative of mind, it is because you are neglecting to deal with the underlying issues that are making your feel stressed out.

How? First by dealing with the fact that you are not taking care of yourself in the manner in which you require to feel well.

3. By increasing your activity even as little as 20 minutes a few times a day by taking a walk or a hike in a beautiful and close to you environment, getting that heart of yours pumping, you will release endorphins that will bring you a feeling of happiness. Your body does that all by itself if you allow it to. Also, by doing this, you are getting your bones the weight bearing exercise necessary to help them to rebuild and stay strong. You are getting your circulation going and you lungs activated breathing in good clean oxygen. That oxygen goes into your red blood cells bringing you energy, helping you to feel alive. Not bad for a few minutes of enjoyable time outdoors.

4, Sleep better by stopping the caffeine and alcohol intake 3 hours before going to bed, never eating less then 4 hours before you go to sleep and turning off ALL your electronics. Grab an old fashioned book to read full of inspirational information or a great story that leaves you feeling great, turning off the light after reading a chapter or two.

5. After you shut off your light, put yourself into a trance state by looking above eye level and allowing your eyes to blink, shut them and then tense and relax each set of muscles starting at your feet and going up to your head.

Next, imagine a spiritual stair case floating in the sky and then give yourself the suggestion that with each step you go down you will double your relaxation.

When you hit step zero bring yourself to a beautiful place either inside yourself, or one you have been to and just lay there peacefully for a few moments enjoying that peaceful time.

Then ask your unconscious mind (because that is where you are now) what is causing the stress in your life? Allow the answer to come in, because it will if you just give it a few minutes to show up for you.

Once you get the answer, ask your unconscious mind what you can do to relieve yourself of this stressor that is in the highest best manner for you and your family (if you have one)?

Thank your unconscious mind and make a note of that information.

You can open your eyes, turn on a dim light, and write down the information you received and then tomorrow you will go about doing what you were guided to do.

You will be amazed at how much better you will sleep NOW!

6. Social support: Man, where would I be now without all the social support I get from my friends, colleagues and some of my family members? Well, to be sure it wouldn’t be a very pretty picture. We ALL need support to help us do what we need to do in this world, especially if we have a mission in life, as I know I do. There isn’t anyone on the planet who did anything of any impact who didn’t have a bunch of supporters, investors and believers to help them through the obstacles, challenges and setbacks that are inevitable when striking out to create something new. So stop believing that you have to do “it all on your own.” And, share your dreams with those whom you trust and love and know love you unconditionally. You never know who is there who will be deeply committed to helping you make your dream a reality, even if it takes a decade or more! If you are hanging around depressed, condescending people, let them go our of your life, especially if they are family who know how to trigger and get the worst out of you. Trust me, doing this alone will free up so much mental and emotional space for your life, you will be amazed!

7. Get out and do those things that you enjoy doing. I love to go to the ocean and people watch, especially while eating a wonderfully meal. I also love making great food and enjoying it with my friends. Or perhaps exploring new places. What do you love to do when you are outside under the sky?

8. What kind of food are you putting into that temple of a body of yours? Are you eating at fast food places, or grabbing the fastest crap you can and then shoving it down your throat because you don’t have time to prepare a healthy and delusions meal and take your time enjoying it? Well, I have news for you. I do cooking once a week. I got into this habit because I offered to cook whole diabetic friendly meals to my landlady. We go shopping for the ingredients on the list based on the menu I created for that week. Then I spend anywhere from 4 to 8 hours cooking. I listen to music or podcasts as I work, enjoying every moment of it. When I am done, I clean the kitchen, bring my landlady her food and know that there is enough to feed me for the week, some of my favorite meals that I would never make only for me. I suggest you figure out a method to getting you cooking once a week all those great foods from your youth that your mom created for you – especially if she was a decent cook as was my mother. Adapt the ingredients to reflect healthy proteins, good fats (avocado, olive oil, nut oils, coconut oil and seeds), low glycemic fruits like berries, high fiber apples, and whole grains – brown and blue rice, whole oats and quinoa. Stay away from simple starches, simple sugars, anything that has been manufactured with ingredients your don’t understand and/or can’t pronounce and stay away from soda, more then occasional alcohol and limit your caffeine intake to keep yourself hydrated. Drink lots of fresh clean water, add lemon and cucumber to it to add other positive qualities to that water in addition to flavoring it.

You will realize with these changes, you’ll be better able to focus on what matters, let go of what is getting you down, while feeling a whole lot more energized.

9, Extra Bonus: You want to help your brain? Eat 72% Cocoa chocolate. Mis some grated coconut with unrefined and unheated pure honey, spoon the melted in your microwave for a minute and a half or so chocolate over the little mounds of coconut and honey. – top with some walnuts or pumpkin seeds, place in your freezer and you have a fabulous treat for everyone. This is an easy to do fun project or do with young kids. They will love eating the stuff that is left in the bowels – I know. I do, because I am just a big child anyway!

10. And that is the last part: stay in touch with your inner child – that part of you that enjoys the silly, fun things in life. It will keep you young and engaged in life for the rest of your life. It will allow you to stop being obsessed by the manufactured media news that if believed would turn anyone into a negative human being.

Just remember that we have the choice in what we spend our time doing and with that you have the ability to create a healthy, happy, purposeful life.

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