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When your boundaries are violated, you can feel used, abused and trod upon. Find out what healthy boundaries look like in this episode.
Nov 03 2016
Is There Such a Thing as “Transgender” or is it a Myth?
Vol. 386, November 3, 2016 – Is There Such a Thing as “Transgender” or is it a Myth?
Over the past few weeks I have been working with an 18 year old who “came out” to her family as a trans gender person, a person with body dysmorphic disorder. This was something that she has spent much time and energy worrying about over the last two-thirds of her young life. Her biggest fear was that she would be thrown out of her home for “coming out.”
I had done quite a bit of research to figure out the best way of helping my client since she asked me to support her when she told her guardians. Her guardians let her know that they loved her unconditionally, though they were as confused as she was during the conversation. She was wanting them to use an alternative name for her, getting rid of her female identity, though in her case, she was fine with her body as it is and wanted to continue wearing her makeup to hide her acne, including very bright red lip stick. Her belief was that there needn’t be any gender role really – anything goes.
However, I missed one very important person I know who came through for me beautifully in a consultation we had over the phone a day after the “coming out” appointment. This person who helped me, is herself a person who went through gender reassignment surgery when she was in her 40’s, about 20 years ago. The reason that this is important, is because most of the information that is out there on this issue says, that, yes indeed, people can have gender issues and yes, some of them would be better off to go through the surgery. My consultant emphatically disagrees based on what she has learned from being a part of the “trans” culture for many years, though she has prohibited me from using the term “trans,” because so far as she is concerned it doesn’t exist. She made the excellent point that even after gender reassignment surgery these people are still miserable. She even admitted to the fact that after much therapy over the years, she still has issues of gender. Studies by Johns Hopkins Hospital proved this point and have stopped doing the reassignment surgeries they once did, according to Dr. Paul McHugh as he commented in the Wall Street Journal on May 13, 2016.
The Karolinska Institute in Sweden did a 30 year long study following 324 people who had gender-reassignment surgery. They found that around the tenth anniversary of their surgery, these patients began to experience increasing mental health issues. Sadly, their suicide mortality rose 20 times above the comparable non-transgender population.
Those who undergo sex-reassignment surgery become feminized males or masculinized females, rather then changing from one gender to the next.
My consultant explained to me that there are only two genders, male and female determined by ones physical organs, hormones and chromosomes. Further, she told me to call it “gender confusion,” because that is what it is.
How do people get gender confused? Simple. By having parents that are unhealthy gender role models. So, if one has a mother that was scary or depressed, a very young child may find that being a “female” means being mean or sad, so decides that being a male would be easier. Of course at this stage of life, it may be an unconscious decision. During puberty a person is figuring out their gender roles as the body develops, bringing this questioning of gender into play.
A week later when I went to do a follow-up using the information that I learned from my consultant, my client acknowledged that being that “other” person wasn’t working for her at all. She was still miserable. She was still confused.
So, what was the solution? For my client it was cleared up through doing a session of hypnosis. She was able to understand that she wasn’t her mother and as such could allow herself to be fine with the gender with which she was born. This made life a lot less confusing continuing to wear the makeup she feels she needs to hide her acne and the more feminine clothing she enjoys. Because not liking to wear dresses, isn’t the same as needing to be a male, is it?
Some of her confusion may have come as a result of her doing much research on the issue on the internet, and hanging out with others online in the so-called “trans” community who were trying to help her. What happened as a result was even more confusion in this case.
There are psychiatrists out there who realize that this is a mental health issue and needs to be dealt with as such. However, the basic understanding that needs to be had, is that you are fine the way you were born, and you are not your parent. Your parent is separate from you. I always allow my clients the benefit of giving the gifts of their parents issues back to the parents, allowing the client to move on with their own life.
The parental role models need to help the individual to fulfill their gender roles as best they can. Luckily, my client has two great role models with whom she lives who are allowing her to do this as well.
So, if you have this issue yourself or know people who do, understand that this isn’t a physical issue that can be taken care of in that manner. It is a psychological issue where for some reason the individual has feelings that began while very young, that it was too hard to be their birth gender. The best way to clear it up is to get the person to go back to the time when the person made the decision that it would be easier to be the other gender. Next the person needs to understand that they are fine the way they are, and to let go of the idea that a parent with issues, means anything to them. It needn’t be. This is the easiest way to help the client move into self-love and self-appreciation just the way they are without the need to physically alter or mutilate the body with hormones and/or surgery.
Oct 31 2016
170: Marianne Williamson’s “Tears to Triumph- Metaphysics of Jesus
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Master Hypnotist Suzanne Kellner-Zinck finishes her series on Marianne Williamson’s book “Tears to Triumph”. This episode discusses the teachings of Jesus and the metaphysical meaning behind the story of his resurrection.
Oct 27 2016
A Non-Medical Solution to the 30% Increase in Type 2 Diabetes in Youth
Vol. 385, October 27, 2016 – A Non-Medical Solution to the 30% Increase in Type 2 Diabetes in Youth
Since 2002 there has been a 30% increase in type 2 diabetes in children from 10 to 19 years of age. There are many reasons for this including the terrible “Frankin” food” we give our kids, both pre-packaged and fast foods, the pesticides and antibiotics in the food supply, and the total lack of exercise most kids are experiencing. There is also the issue of medicating our kids from normal emotional expression, as well as, giving them amphetamines to keep them sedate in school, quite contrary to the natural need especially for young boys to explore and expend their healthy energy.
If we don’t take care of our kids, they are bound to end up with all sorts of systemic illnesses due to their diabetes, at much younger ages then what was the norm for what used to be known as “adult onset diabetes.”
Here’s the thing: Type 2 diabetes IS reversible. That is if we actually work on the underlying reasons why the diabetes is present. It has less to do with keeping sugar levels under control, and more to do with appetite control, while stopping the leaching of all the water soluble nutrients, that occurs with the excessive urination from the diabetes.
If a person stays on medication that is given to “manage” the diabetes the gruesome statistics are in:
- Mayo Clinic researchers have finally stated what the medical literature have been saying for a very long time: physicians have been sold a bundle of lies on the benefits of drugs like metormin, in the altering the course of Type 2 diabetes. Reason: altering the blood sugar numbers has little to do with the progression of the disease.
- Drugs prescribed require higher doses as resistance to them comes into play, associating them with early death compared to those who are never treated for their Type 2 diabetes.
- Newer drugs like pioglitazone (Actose) and rosglitazone (Avanda) appear to be extremely dangerous associated with significant weight gain, the opposite response to what diabetics require.
- The ACCORD Trial showed the tight control over glycemic index as measured by the A1C glycosylated hemoglobin blood sugar control through medication alone all cause mortality to INCREASE by 26% and increased mortality by 45%.
Dr. Mercola explains the role of the hormone leptin needing to be produced to control appetite which works in concert with insulin release.
Dr. Julian Whitiker explains that diabetes is really a “nutritional wasting disease” as explained above through the leaching of water soluble nutrients through the frequent urination.
Dr. Rosedale speaks of Type 3 diabetes, Alzheimer’s in 2005 was dubbed Type 3 diabetes when researchers learned that your brain ALSO produces insulin, necessary for the survival of your brain cells. Insulin is a “master multi-tasker” helping with neuron glucose uptake, regulating the neurotransmitters like acetylcholine, necessary for memory and learning. Those with Type 2 diabetes also show more loss of brain volume with age especially in the brain matter. Dr. Rosedale believes that it is the decrease in insulin in the brain that is causing the degeneration of the neurodegenerative diseases such as glaucoma – an irreversible blinding disorder.
Jerry Kein, a hypnotist in practice for 50 years, noted that people who had held regret and resentment toward those they loved, seemed to become diabetic.
So, given all the health problems that can come about as a result of Type 2 diabetes, and I didn’t even go into the problems with blood circulation causing the non-healing of ulcers that bring on gout ending with amputation of legs. Or the neuropathy, or the heart, lung and kidney failure, all that cause death secondary to the diabetes itself.
Now that you better understand what is truly going on physiologically in you kid’s body, don’t you believe it is time you actually learned, with your child, what truly needs to change, so that your kid has a decent chance at living a normal life span, healthy and happy. being cleared of Type 2 diabetes?
Because the sad truth is, that most conventionally trained doctors have no idea that this is what is behind the development and therefore healing of diabetes. I gave a presentation on this exact information with 13 health care professionals, two of them medical doctors, and none of them knew any of this information. And, these were medical professionals open to complimentary healing methods. So, you know that the majority of conventionally trained medical professionals will follow whatever the conventional wisdom is, pushing the deadly so-called medication at their patients believing that this is the best treatment for them.
Except, for one hard to accept fact. Their patients are not getting any better, given the statistics above, more of them are dying from this disease through their treatment, then if they were never treated at all.
So, you aren’t going to learn how to reverse diabetes by going to your conventional doctors. However, you can indeed reverse this terrible disease before it ravishes your child’s health, maybe to the point of premature death.
I have over 30 years working in the field of health, and over 14 years of working in the hypnotic arts. Given all this knowledge, your child can safely reverse their diabetes through eating the correct foods, and getting a bit more activity into their lives. This is completely safe and effective, and your doctor will watch before his or her own very eyes, as you kid regains the health a kid ought to have, living a “normal” life, once again.
I am offering this special retreat for you, the parents and your diabetic child, so everyone is on the same page. It has been proven over decades of studies that the environment that we live in, needs to be conducive to allow for the necessary changes to take place. This is why I want both parents if this is a 2 parent family or the parent and the child, if this is a single parent family to ALL take part together in this retreat.
We are going to go to a very spiritual place where we will be able to get in touch with our inner wisdom, intuitive knowing and higher consciousness to help us more easily make the necessary changes to bring health back to your diabetic kid. The side-effects for the parents are much better eating habits, an increased desire for more fun activity. And, best of all, you may even find yourself getting emotionally closer to one another as a direct result of this retreat.
Given the severity of the situation we are dealing with, I am limiting this retreat to just 36 families.
The cost for this 3 day retreat for up to 3 people is $1,500 plus the cost for travel, hotel and food. There will be an extra VIP Day offered on Monday, for those who would like a deeper delving into the your personal healing processes for an extra $279 per family.
A deposit of $500 is required to hold your place for this ultimate life changing experience for your family. The retreat is going to take place during the 2nd weekend in February in Southern California – the exact location is still being worked out.
For more information and to see if your family is a good fit for this truly unique retreat, please call Suzanne Kellner-Zinck at 781-315-1719.
Oct 24 2016
169: Marianne Williamson “Tears to Triumph” Metaphysics of Moses
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Master Hypnotist Suzanen Kellner-Zinck continues her commentary on “Tears to Triumph” by Marianne Williamson. This episode focuses on the lessons of Moses.
Oct 20 2016
How About Never Being Among the 2X Suicide Rate of Health Care Professionals?
Vol. 384, October 20, 2016 – How About Never Being Among the 2X Suicide Rate of Health Care Professionals?
We, here in America have a very serious problem with those who are treating ailing Americans. In a medical system that has morphed into helping big pharma and the insurance companies make the greatest amount of income, the health care workers aren’t given the time to really find out what is going on with their patients, never mind build rapport with them. This makes it very difficult to give appropriate care, leading to the medical system being the 3rd largest killer of Americans.
I have been doing some serious research on this question over the past few months, wondering why it is that those who are there to help and support us, their patients, in our healing, that many of them are so miserable in their own professions.
Well, the statistics are very sad to say the least. In an average year 400 medical resident students will kill themselves, 15 to 30% higher then the general population, due to the pressures of their schooling and the archaic manner in which they are treated. This is including their supervising doctors, professors and the lack of sleep allowed while one is doing their residency. There is an 80 hour cap on work hours, though the there are some that work 100 hours a week. So, sleep deprivation becomes a real issue here, both for the doctor and for the patient. Then we wonder why there are so many medical mistakes. Here are some very depressing statistics for you regarding suicide in the medical profession:
– After accidents, suicide is the largest killer of physicians.
– Suicide deaths are 250 to 400% higher among female physicians compared to other professions.
– An equal number of female physicians complete suicide to male physicians, though in the general population, males will complete suicide four times more often then females.
– Medical students have rates of depression 15-30% higher then the general population. Other risk factors for physicians are bipolar disorder, alcohol and substance abuse.
– The greater completion of suicide rates for for physicians most likely comes from their greater knowledge of lethality of drugs and easy access to them.
– Depression still being stigmatized in all cultures, the self-reporting is most likely underestimated. Depression is a leading risk factor for myocardial infarction (heart attack) in male physicians, and may play a role in immune suppression, increasing the risk of many infectious diseases and cancer.
– Another factor to confuse the statistics is the likelihood of a compassionate colleague certifying death from another cause.
– Ironically, doctors are very poor at diagnosing depression in themselves. Particularly where a potential mental illness may be needing treatments, physicians are reluctant to get treatment. Physicians have had this information used against them making it difficult to continue practicing in some instances.
- Burnout has been correlated to depression in physicians resulting in suicidal ideation. Of those physicians that experienced suicidal ideation, over 60% were reluctant to seek psychological help. Why? Because they were fearful of losing their license to practice medicine.
– One would want to believe that if they saw a colleague in trouble, that they would point it out. Sadly, this doesn’t happen being trained to be emotionally distant for colleagues and/or feeling temporarily vulnerable themselves. Making the situation worse, when the physicians realize that they need the help, finding it can be quite difficult.
In the world of mental health care providers, the statistics are even worse. The greatest amount of medical students with mental health and abuse histories enter psychiatry. As reported in the American Psychiatric Association study, physicians with affective mood disorders tend to select psychiatry as a specialty..
It seems that mental health professionals similar to their physical health colleagues are unlikely to seek the help they require and as such, many have never taken care of core issues even after doing all the required work for licensure. This is a huge problem, because many don’t feel they are in an appropriate position to do the work with their clients. Some feel triggered when certain issues similar to their’s arise. Spending 8 to10 hours listening to patients complain about their lives, leaves little time to balance their lives with fun or interesting activities to even out the emotional energy spent while in sessions with their patients. In elder years, sometimes the mental health workers get attached to their clients using them as a social outlet instead of giving the care required.
Here are the statistics regarding mental health care professionals from Psychology Today article Why Shrinks Have Problems
- 3 out of 4 experienced emotional issues regarding relationships in the past three years, 60% suffering clinical depression
– A 1992 survey found that 2/3 of the woman experienced some sort of sexual or physical abuse and 1/3 of the men did
- There was a 51% divorce rate in the times when they were much fewer than now for those married between 1948 – 1964.
– 40% of mental health care workers reported being attacked by a client
- 1 of every 4 psychologists has suicidal feelings at times
- 1 in 16 may have attempted suicide
- twice as many psychologists as other medical professionals commit suicide.
It becomes obvious why it is so hard to find medical care that is competent and even more difficult to find medical care that is caring. We live in a society that doesn’t respect their medical providers enough to allow them the care they need for themselves and their families wellbeing.
That is a crime. Without their knowledge, we as a society are at a total loss. Though to be honest, many are confused in how best to practice, in a system that gives them false testing results for medications, the FDA passing many studies that were not done ethically. That means doctors have no idea what medications are safe to prescribe whenever new ones come out.
The idea of allowing a person to use their own bodily wisdom to help heal is something that is all but forgotten in this western world of medicine. The one thing that I have learned in my own healing journey, is that though the conventional treatments for acute difficulties is wonderful in the United States, those for chronic issues is atrocious.
It is with all of these sad facts in mind that I am going to take a definitive action and help those mental health providers that know inside themselves that they really do require appropriate care to finally access it. I am going to be running 3 Day event in Hawthorne/Manhatten Beach in November for those of you who are serious about getting your mental health in check. I know that you realize that stress is the number one reason that people become ill. Given a person’s predispositions, some disease processes are more likely to emerge with that stress. There is absolutely no reason why anyone needs to continue to struggle feeling depressed, anxious, cycling up and down with bi-polar or dealing with addictions in this day and age. I have worked with clients with all of these issues and for those who followed the protocol, their mental health issues are in their past where they belong.
Don’t you deserve to give yourself the same care? Doesn’t your family deserve to have you feeling whole, loving and fulfilled in your life? Don’t your patients deserve to have you working at your best level of ability? So, I ask you to ask yourself these questions:
Are you a mental health professional who knows that you feel like “imposture” or perhaps just feel hypocritical in giving care, because you know that you require health care for yourself? However, you feel it is just to “risky to get that help.”
Are you a mental health professional that knows that you have had many challenges in life because of issues of abuse or neglect in your childhood, and are ready to finally clear those out of your life?
Are you a mental health professional who has abuse in one or more relationships in you past? Perhaps you were left feeling a lot of anger toward your ex and have yet to forgive and let that go. How do you think that may be affecting your care for those patients of yours suffering in similar situations?
Are you a mental health professional that knows there is something gong on with you, but are unclear what to do about it, which in itself is confusion because of the degrees you have earned that should tell you what is wrong with you?
Are you a mental health professional that is self-medicating by abusing substances, over eating, shopping with money that you don’t have, gambling, or involved in sexual relations that you know are not in your best interest?
Are you a mental health professional that is sick of being stuck?
Well, this is something that I want you to understand: Most of the issues that you are carrying around inside yourself, can be easily let go of with the use of the appropriate part of your mind to do so. I can tell you that going back to 2004 I stopped taking the minimal amount of medication I was on for bipolar 2 at the time due to kidney issues caused by the medication. I never had to go back on any of it, thanks to the hypnotic and NLP techniques I applied to myself, with my psychiatrists blessing.
I am doing a live event in February for those of you who are interested in dealing with this aspect of your life. I know a person, someone who I like and respect very much for her knowledge and care – and yet she left the field of mental health nursing, because of health issues. We can’t allow this to continue. There are not enough mental health professionals for all those in the general population who need it. So, how about clearing up your own crap, and bringing some joy, calm and peace into your own life? Maybe some true fulfillment could be a by product of finally taking care of yourselves.
I say this coming from the perspective of a past consumer of the conventional mental health system as well as an ex-provider of the conventional mental health system. Though my conventional psychiatrist is a lovely woman and a true professional in every way, she didn’t have the resources necessary to clear me of my mental health problem. That only came with Hypnosis, actually Time Line THerapy(R). Because this is the thing, medications are not going to take care of the “cause” of your presenting problem. One has to get to the “cause” of the problem, and in that place, the illness can be irradiated, cleared once and for all, for most mental health issues. Personality disorders and schizophrenia are excepted.
During my event, you will learn how to do these clearings for yourself. Further, be my guest and integrate what you learn with your patients. It is my mission to get as many of you this knowledge as possible, so we can clean up the lives of both the mental health professionals and their patients without the over use of medication, the near uselessness of CBT and other conscious training that just doesn’t work, it being way too difficult for most to commit to. Once the unconscious and super conscious minds are included in the treatment, magic happens.
Care to learn more? Call me: Suzanne at 781-315-1719. We have a lot of work to do, and its best if we get our own houses in order before claiming to be able to help others heal their lives. There is much to be said for living congruently and with integrity.
I look forward to hearing from you and getting your own input in what you feel would be useful to include in this program. As we know many minds acting together for a cause, does much better than a single mind.
So give me a call at 781-315-1719 and let’s get these mental health issues resolved once and for all for both you and the community that you went into practice to help heal!
Oct 17 2016
168:Marianne Williamson’s “Tears To Triumph 2 – Metaphysics of Spiritual Teachings
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Further commentary on Marianne Williamson’s book “Tears to Triumph”. This section focuses on the teachings of Buddhism.