What Does It Mean When Someone Needs To Control Everything? —Vol. 514 – Sept. 12, 2019
The first thing I ask anyone who asks me about another’s controlling behavior is, “Why do you believe they are so controlling?” This is important because there is ALWAYS a purpose for controlling behavior.
People become controlling because they feel threatened, and feel safer by being controlling.
Why do people feel threatened? Because they have something of value to them they feel they will lose. A controlling boss who is fearful of losing his position to a person s/he manages. A person who has a lot of assets financially speaking worried he will lose his assets. A man who is dating a beautiful woman he is fearful some other guy might try to take away from him (jealousy being a controlling emotion).
So, what happened in the person’s life that created this emotion of being threatened by whatever it is that they are controlling? This is what needs to be healed to let it go.
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