Take Responsibility for Your Choices – Vol. 452, May 10, 2018
There are so many people walking around who find it very easy to blame others for the choices that they have made in life. This occurs when people are particularly unhappy in life, perhaps unhealthy, depressed, or full of anxiety.
Many years ago, I saw a young gymnast, 9 years old, who was unwilling to do the unparallel bar. This caused much concern as it was part of every competition she was involved in. A very important competition was coming up right after the Thanksgiving Day in which I saw her.
I did the hypnosis with her, to find out that the coaches son, was throwing her so hard against the bar, she was bruising her thighs. No wonder she refused to do this particular exercise.
Her mother asked me if she should speak to the coach about her daughter’s problem to help her resolve it. I told her mother that her daughter’s gymnastics career was hers to navigate. That she could now speak to her coach, tell her what was causing the problem and ask to resolve it. The daughter did just that and moved on to do well in her next competition. She took total responsibility for her career. And, she wears merely 9 years old!
Compare that attitude to so many adults, still feeling so hurt and upset by something their parents did to them 50 or more years ago. They blame their parents even as they expect their own kids to take responsibility for their own lives. How can this be? Well, we live in a time of blaming anyone but ourselves for the choices we have made. We hold onto anger and resentment to the point where we develop chronic illnesses, stopping us from enjoying our lives.
I have a policy with my prospective clients, letting them know that the work that we do together has nothing to do with their whining to me for weeks on end how badly they were treated by their parents or anyone else. They get to tell me their story exactly once. A treatment plan is generated based on that story (Their Detailed Personal History). From there we clear their issues by giving them the opportunity to receive their own positive learnings from all the hurtful, painful events of their lives. From there we work on helping them develop their compelling future.
You know what the end result is for my clients – those who I choose to work with? They being “at cause” for their lives and their health and wellness? They no longer have any of their emotional issues and they are able to “fall back in love with themselves,” forgive those who hurt them, understanding that these people were doing the best they could with what they had at the time. Their lives are turned away from the past. and to the present, working on creating their futures the way they want them. It is a much happier, fulfilling and contented place from them to live their lives.
Stop the blaming others for what isn’t working in your own life. Be “at cause” and create the life you want to create, while enjoying living in the present. That is the way people move out of illness, away from accidents, and live very happy and fulfilling lives. It’s very simple really.
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About Suzanne
Suzanne Kellner-Zinck founded Dawning Visions Hypnosis in 2002, She has become an innovator in the use of hypnotism and neuro-linguistic programming in the areas of obsessive compulsive disorders such as: eating disorders, sexual addiction and substance abuse as well as working with those with anxiety and mood disorders.
Her clients have come to work with her from across the United States and as far away as Africa to help them to finally be freed from these emotional issues that once ruled their lives. Today she is in the process of bringing her work to many more in the form of ebooks and other downloadable formats.
She is a member of American Holistic Medical Association and the American College for Advancement in Medicine.
Prior to founding Dawning Visions Hypnosis, Kellner-Zinck worked within vendor programs for the mentally ill working to help them to live up to their fullest potential. Many of her previous clients were able to move out on their own and find fulfilling work.
Kellner-Zinck is a Certified Trainer of Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic programing through Tad James Company, Inc. and a Master Hypnotist and Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming through Advanced Neuro Dynamics. She holds a bachelor’s degree in education and political studies from Curry College.
Dawning Visions Hypnosis is teaching people that they can indeed leave their unwanted behaviors behind as they move forward to living fulfilling and joy filled lives.