I am a person who thrives on change and gets bored very easily with the status quo. I have been known to do things to upset the status quo because of my boredom. It has made for a very interesting life.
So, how does one cope with the change? You realize that there can always be a positive aspect to it, even if the change isn’t something you desired. In my own case, when my ex wanted out of our 20 years plus marriage, I was not happy about it – I was not yet ready to be on my own financially though I was quickly headed in that direction. However, it was much better that he leave because though we still loved one another, we were no longer IN LOVE with one another. We had grown at different rates emotionally and wanted different things in life. With his leaving, I was able to have my independence back which allowed me to travel and live in the different places that I was called to move to or visit.
If it is a job situation – man I have had so many jobs, I have lost count. I either fired most of my bosses or they fired me. I learned that I am unemployable because I have my own mind and my own way of doing things that don’t usually meet the requirements of the red tape and general bullshit that organizations put in place for legal reasons.
So, I have found that self-employment is the best way for me to go even though it is a challenge at times – however, the only people I have to work for are my clients whom I do my best to hire only those that best fit my manner of practicing hypnosis because I am only the right fit for those who are ready to ‘change’ now. I am not into endless appointments and going over the same sad stories. If I wanted to do that I could have become a licensed mental health practitioner – that is what they do all day long. No, I like to hear the story once, clear all the negative emotions and limiting beliefs as quickly as possible and get my clients working on putting their compelling futures in place. Those who are ready to heal love that concept even if it includes my kicking them in the proverbial ass on the way. The others, well they would be a better fit for a practitioner who would prefer to listen to the stories of woe endlessly.
My work is that of doing ‘change’ work for my clients and that is the way it is done. You make a decision to make the change even if it seems a bit scary because one doesn’t know what’s on the other side – and most times one will be better for making the change for the change needed to be made anyway.
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About Suzanne
Suzanne Kellner-Zinck founded Dawning Visions Hypnosis in 2002, She has become an innovator in the use of hypnotism and neuro-linguistic programming in the areas of obsessive compulsive disorders such as: eating disorders, sexual addiction and substance abuse as well as working with those with anxiety and mood disorders.
Her clients have come to work with her from across the United States and as far away as Africa to help them to finally be freed from these emotional issues that once ruled their lives. Today she is in the process of bringing her work to many more in the form of ebooks and other downloadable formats.
She is a member of American Holistic Medical Association and the American College for Advancement in Medicine.
Prior to founding Dawning Visions Hypnosis, Kellner-Zinck worked within vendor programs for the mentally ill working to help them to live up to their fullest potential. Many of her previous clients were able to move out on their own and find fulfilling work.
Kellner-Zinck is a Certified Trainer of Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic programing through Tad James Company, Inc. and a Master Hypnotist and Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming through Advanced Neuro Dynamics. She holds a bachelor’s degree in education and political studies from Curry College.
Dawning Visions Hypnosis is teaching people that they can indeed leave their unwanted behaviors behind as they move forward to living fulfilling and joy filled lives.