This was a question a person on Quora asked and this is how I answered it: To tell you the truth most people have no idea how their actions and ignorant statements affect others, you and me included. My standard way of helping myself and my clients deal with this situation is to call the …
Category: Dating
Blog posts on dating and intimate relationships
Sep 30 2021
Caroline Corey’s Question: Is Your Relationship Working for You? Vol. 533, Sept. 30, 2021
Today we are going to speak to relationships, specifically how are your relationships working for you? This came about after my introduction to spiritual teacher Caroline Corey. She challenges us to be truthful with ourselves in terms of how it is that we are living our lives – certainly very aligned with all the work …
Jul 23 2020
How Much Time Do You Give Yourself to Get Over a Breakup?
How Much Time Do You Give Yourself to Get Over a Breakup? Vol. 558 – July 23, 2020 Someone on Quora asked me to answer this question. Here is how I responded: This is an interesting question and really doesn’t have one answer because people are different and the amount of time a couple together …
Aug 18 2016
The World Of Dating: How to Do It Safely & Respectfully
The World Of Dating: How to Do It Safely & Respectfully – Vol. 375, August 18, 2016 Being a health care professional, I realize the necessity of having intimate relationships to live a healthy life. I tell my clients often that we humans are like ants and bees in that we need social connection …
Apr 14 2016
Boundaries: Do You Overrun Other Peoples’ Boundaries Or Allow Others To Overrun Yours?
Boundaries: Do You Overrun Other Peoples’ Boundaries Or Allow Others To Overrun Yours? Vol. 357, April 14, 2016 This past weekend I went to a training based on shifting the inner mind from scarcity to abundance. It was an intensive few days. However, what I would like to speak about is a particular woman who …
Mar 05 2015
What Do I Do If I Have Been Raped? (Part 3 of 3)
What Do I Do If I Have Been Raped? – Vol.300, March 5, 2015 Unfortunately one in four women will be raped during their lifetimes. Male victims make up 10% of all rapes so it is a fairly common problem in our society, sadly. Unfortunately, I too have been victimized in this way going …
Feb 19 2015
What Do I Do If My Lover Has Been Raped? (Both for men and women survivors) (Part 1 of 3)
What Do I Do If My Lover Has Been Raped? (Both for men and women survivors) – Vol. 298, February 19, 2015 There is a very big difference between mutually consensual sex and being raped. Rape uses sex as a vehicle for gaining power and control with force, fear, or violence, making the survivor fearful for …
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