I Can’t Fit in This World. Why do I Need to Get Out of My Comfort Zone Interacting With People Who Don’t Understand Me? – Vol. 537, Feb. 20, 2020
Thanks for the question.
I was having a conversation with one of my sisters the other day, where she acknowledged that I was the ‘black sheep’ of the family as I have always gone to the beat of my own drummer. One can live life the way one wants. In my case, I am always up for new adventures. I have crossed the country twice and been up and down each coast, and around the globe a few times. I don’t have a ‘home’ at the moment and don’t care really. I am helping out a friend till I leave to get on with the next adventure and that is fine. Because it is through doing and being with people that one makes a good life as well.
My sisters, on the other hand, love their ‘nests. They have their homes, their families and pets. I don’t have any of that these days – being divorced for many years now, so I am on my own doing life as creatively as possible. The main thing is to be who you are and do what you care about doing. It is always great to be of assistance to others who could use your help, because it is helpful to them and gratifying for you. However, there are myriads of ways that one can accomplish this in the world.
The other point that I would like to make is that no one has to defend the way one lives to anyone. It really isn’t anyone else’s business so long as you are happy and functional. Of course, if you are not happy and unable to function in life, then those who care about you will let you know of their concern. It’s called ‘caring.’ Be honest with yourself about your state of mind and how you are doing.
**Update: I have left my friend’s home to continue onto my next journey which is at the University of Haifa’s International School where I am learning all about Peace & Conflict Management with students from literally all over the globe. If one wants to learn how to deal with international negotiations, it is best to be in the area that this is a necessary skill set, and be among peoples of the world who have very different cultural upbringings and life experiences than you. So far it has been a much better experience than even I could have dreamed before arriving here to get into my studies. Which is another learning – one is never too old to continue to learn skills to uplevel one’s career.
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Suzanne Kellner-Zinck founded Dawning Visions Hypnosis in 2002, She has become an innovator in the use of hypnotism and neuro-linguistic programming in the areas of obsessive compulsive disorders such as: eating disorders, sexual addiction and substance abuse as well as working with those with anxiety and mood disorders.
Her clients have come to work with her from across the United States and as far away as Africa to help them to finally be freed from these emotional issues that once ruled their lives. Today she is in the process of bringing her work to many more in the form of ebooks and other downloadable formats.
She is a member of American Holistic Medical Association and the American College for Advancement in Medicine.
Prior to founding Dawning Visions Hypnosis, Kellner-Zinck worked within vendor programs for the mentally ill working to help them to live up to their fullest potential. Many of her previous clients were able to move out on their own and find fulfilling work.
Kellner-Zinck is a Certified Trainer of Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic programing through Tad James Company, Inc. and a Master Hypnotist and Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming through Advanced Neuro Dynamics. She holds a bachelor’s degree in education and political studies from Curry College.
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