A person on Quora asked this question which I believe is on too many peoples’ minds, especially these days. The reality is that we would be much better served to focus on those who actually are willing to make the necessary changes to live happy and fulfilled lives. Better yet, are already living happy and fulfilled lives. Here is the answer that I wrote:
This is very simple: It is appropriate boundaries. Even as someone who works with people with mental health issues, I can only help them to the degree that they will apply themselves to help themselves. Anything else becomes a co-dependent relationship and they are unhealthy.
Cut the cord and move on with your life. Hopefully, the person will go on to get some professional help if that is what is required. But, it isn’t your job to help someone who is unwilling to do a thing to help themselves. You have your own life to live, so go on and live it.
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