This was a question that was asked by a person on Quora. Given all the events of the past couple of years, it is an important question to be asking ourselves. Here is how I answered the question:
Thank you for this question.
Yes, one’s attitude is the most important differentiator is everything one does in life. Think of it this way: If one is secure in one’s self, and is looking for an answer to a question – all that is needed is the facts to make a decision on how to move forward. So, a calm pleasant demeanor is the difference between getting what you want and maybe more, than getting a runaround.
If one is positive in creating the desired results in life, one will attract those who can best help one to gain the knowledge and experience necessary to move ahead. This is especially true if one is willing to give of one’s self and be teachable/coachable.
No one wants to be around a person who feels sorry for themselves and feels entitled. These people have issues that they need to resolve with a professional’s help.
Relationships are the difference in creating opportunities, so be mindful of how you come across to others. Be authentic, and be humble, share your knowledge, and miracles occur. Miracles occur most especially at those times when one needs them, because those of us who take risks, need those miracles to occur on a regular basis. However, it is by being helpful and understanding, that others are willing to be there for you when needed.
Do understand that your attitude is either going to make you or break you. Think about those people that you truly enjoy being around and that is your answer.
(Unless you are depressed and like being around depressed negative people, in which you need the help of a professional.)
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About Suzanne
Suzanne Kellner-Zinck founded Dawning Visions Hypnosis in 2002, She has become an innovator in the use of hypnotism and neuro-linguistic programming in the areas of obsessive compulsive disorders such as: eating disorders, sexual addiction and substance abuse as well as working with those with anxiety and mood disorders.
Her clients have come to work with her from across the United States and as far away as Africa to help them to finally be freed from these emotional issues that once ruled their lives. Today she is in the process of bringing her work to many more in the form of ebooks and other downloadable formats.
She is a member of American Holistic Medical Association and the American College for Advancement in Medicine.
Prior to founding Dawning Visions Hypnosis, Kellner-Zinck worked within vendor programs for the mentally ill working to help them to live up to their fullest potential. Many of her previous clients were able to move out on their own and find fulfilling work.
Kellner-Zinck is a Certified Trainer of Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic programing through Tad James Company, Inc. and a Master Hypnotist and Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming through Advanced Neuro Dynamics. She holds a bachelor’s degree in education and political studies from Curry College.
Dawning Visions Hypnosis is teaching people that they can indeed leave their unwanted behaviors behind as they move forward to living fulfilling and joy filled lives.