My Husband Cheated on Me. Am I Wrong For Planning on Making Him Fall Back In Love With Me?

broken heart photoVol. 486, Jan. 24, 2018 – My Husband Cheated on Me. Am I wrong for Planning on Making Him Fall Back in Love With Me, So I Can Break His Heart?

When I read this question on Quora, I had to dive in and answer it, because there were more than a few. things wrong with the premise. Here is what I wrote in answer:

Let me tell you, this is the most immature and misguided idea I have seen in a very long time. How old are you? 17 or maybe 15 years old.

If your husband cheated on you it was because the relationship isn’t working for him, and I would gather for you either. So, the question becomes one of what needs to happen to either heal it if you are BOTH willing to do the work to make that happen or dissolve it since he is no longer interested.

One cannot force another to love them, nor can one have a healthy relationship with someone who isn’t interested in being involved with you.

If you really loved him, you would let him go.

I know from personal experience as my ex decided that he wanted out of the marriage and left. It was not easy, but I would never want to be in a relationship with someone who didn’t want to be with me any longer. So, I gave him my blessings and we went our own ways.

Was it easy? Hell no! Was it necessary? Yes, indeed and it has allowed me to regain my emotional and physical health, because I wasn’t happy in that relationship either – how could I be with a person who didn’t want to be there and let me know it through his own anger and resentment till he had the courage to finally ask to be released – and now it wasn’t pleasant, but we came to terms and we are now better friends then we were married – that is a fact. I have the freedom to go and do what I want and he is remarried for whatever that has done for him. Each for his own to choose.

 

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Suzanne Kellner-Zinck founded Dawning Visions Hypnosis in 2002, She has become an innovator in the use of hypnotism and neuro-linguistic programming in the areas of obsessive compulsive disorders such as: eating disorders, sexual addiction and substance abuse as well as working with those with anxiety and mood disorders.

Her clients have come to work with her from across the United States and as far away as Africa to help them to finally be freed from these emotional issues that once ruled their lives. Today she is in the process of bringing her work to many more in the form of ebooks and other downloadable formats.

She is a member of American Holistic Medical Association and the American College for Advancement in Medicine.

Prior to founding Dawning Visions Hypnosis, Kellner-Zinck worked within vendor programs for the mentally ill working to help them to live up to their fullest potential. Many of her previous clients were able to move out on their own and find fulfilling work.

Kellner-Zinck is a Certified Trainer of Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic programing through Tad James Company, Inc. and a Master Hypnotist and Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming through Advanced Neuro Dynamics. She holds a bachelor’s degree in education and political studies from Curry College.

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