When a person experiences a panic attack, the best thing to help them do is breathe deeply. By breathing deeply, the person will calm down.
You want the person to take a deep breath in through their nose, hold it for a count of 4, and then exhale through their mouth for a count of 6. Have them do this a few times and the oxygenation of the deep breathing will help them to overcome the panic they are feeling in the moment.
In terms of overall support for one who is experiencing panic attacks and trauma, it is best to let them know that you love and support them, but that you are not a therapist so have no way to help them in the way that a professional could. Give the person some resources where they can find the help they require and then just tell them that they could give these places a call when they are ready. Then leave the subject alone.
I have had past clients have friends who put my clients into situations where they were looking for my clients who had serious issues of their own to act as a therapist for them. I told each of them to tell the person in their life who was doing the same thing. One found a professional to refer her to and the other just used it as a boundary to stop talking to her about these issues because it was overwhelming to her and she couldn’t help him.
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