Are you one of those people that are continuously telling the world that this one thing (whatever that thing is for you) is the most important thing in your life, and yet…you are not doing whatever it takes to make it your reality?
I have a client who is a singer. She and her family have invested all that they have into her singing career and yet, it has yet to take off. One of the issues that certainly got in the way was what I like to affectionately call “The C-V-D Crap” meaning the shutting down of normal human business.
However, there was something else that was getting in her way that had nothing to do with the current issues of the day and that would be allowing her emotional energy to be wasted on people who were just not worth it.
Many times we humans find ourselves in relationships with destructive people. They can be people who have mental health issues that take away their ability to have empathy for another, finding multiple ways to abuse, dismiss, and manipulate another for their own entertainment.
There are other people that find their ways into our lives who are what I call “leaches” others call them “psychic vampires” as they suck all your energy from you with their neediness.
Neither of these types of people is going to do anything but squander your own emotional energy on their actions and reactions to you.
If you have a very important goal, something that is so very important to you that you are constantly telling the world about it, how about you do some house cleaning in relationship to the people that you are squandering your emotional energy on?
How about you be very mindful of those with whom you choose to engage?
How about taking responsibility for who it is that you are allowing into your world?
For this particular client, she had one choice to make if she wanted to allow her singing career to take off. That one choice was to block any and all contact with the individual and all the others that were a part of his family and his friends from having any contact with her as any time there was contact, it sent her into a very destabilized emotional condition. A destabilized emotional condition means that one is unable to think clearly and unemotionally when it comes to getting the work done that needs to be done to achieve one’s goals.
Now, this was not something that was easy for her because there were all sorts of exchanges that needed to happen in terms of his receiving something she had, and he returning something to her and yet, given that this is all a game for him being the person that he has shown himself to be, it was evident that it wasn’t about the ‘things’ for him. Not at all. It was about the emotional games he was able to continue to play on my client – and so it needed to end regardless of the ‘circumstances.’ Because there will ALWAYS be circumstances that need to be contended with until we understand that the circumstances are just a part of the overall manipulation – and the only way to end all of that is to realize it for what it is and let it all go. Block the person(s) from your phone – your phone company can help you do this, and block them from all your social media – and then and only then will you be emotionally stable enough to think clearly and deliberately about that which you say is the most important thing in your life.
Only then will you be able to take the steps necessary to make that important thing a reality for you. Only then…will you at long last feel calm…and of course, that would be enough to take these necessary actions. But, if you are out there telling the world that this one thing means more to you than anything else such as my client’s career in singing – well, best you put your emotional energy into making that happen because otherwise you are fooling yourself and making a fool of yourself at the same time.
Most people do want to be supportive of their friends and family making their goals in life. However, to be able to truly be supportive of a loved one, that loved one needs to demonstrate that they are serious about attaining their goal, with their total energy being placed on meeting that goal.
When one is endlessly complaining about how others are causing distractions or worse abusive manipulations – well, till that situation is taken care of it will be very hard to expect anyone to really take you seriously, because you are not taking yourself seriously.
We all need to simplify our lives when we have true dreams that we want to live out. And, that indeed includes leaving those who are distractive personalities so we can focus on what truly matters to us the most – it is the only way to reach your own fulfillment =contentment=happiness=peace=calm.
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Suzanne Kellner-Zinck founded Dawning Visions Hypnosis in 2002, She has become an innovator in the use of hypnotism and neuro-linguistic programming in the areas of obsessive compulsive disorders such as: eating disorders, sexual addiction and substance abuse as well as working with those with anxiety and mood disorders.
Her clients have come to work with her from across the United States and as far away as Africa to help them to finally be freed from these emotional issues that once ruled their lives. Today she is in the process of bringing her work to many more in the form of ebooks and other downloadable formats.
She is a member of American Holistic Medical Association and the American College for Advancement in Medicine.
Prior to founding Dawning Visions Hypnosis, Kellner-Zinck worked within vendor programs for the mentally ill working to help them to live up to their fullest potential. Many of her previous clients were able to move out on their own and find fulfilling work.
Kellner-Zinck is a Certified Trainer of Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic programing through Tad James Company, Inc. and a Master Hypnotist and Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming through Advanced Neuro Dynamics. She holds a bachelor’s degree in education and political studies from Curry College.
Dawning Visions Hypnosis is teaching people that they can indeed leave their unwanted behaviors behind as they move forward to living fulfilling and joy filled lives.
