Here is how I answered this question:
If your marriage is not working there are many reasons for this to occur. We can grow in different directions or at different rates. We can have different ideas about the amount of affection and how it is to be shown, etc.
It is best to go your separate ways to allow each of you to regain happiness alone. There is no badge given to those who are masochist such as your husband who feels divorce is wrong.
My ex left me and it was the best thing for my health possible. Financially it has been very difficult. But, I would prefer to have my health back. I have thanked him for leaving for this very reason. We are still friends to this day, though we don’t speak often or see one another much because we are each living our own lives. He is remarried and I am happily single going for my own goals which take me all over the place.
Of course, this is only my opinion, but it is based on my own life’s situation.
You each deserve to be happy. And, who knows, maybe like me and my ex, you may make better friends than spouses.

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