This morning I did my usual morning activities while listening to some really beautiful Irish music from the medieval era. I like listening to this music because it reminds me of the amazing trip my friend Harry brought me on to Ireland back in 2005. His cousin was getting married and he wanted to bring me with him so he wasn’t attending his cousin’s wedding alone – the purpose of the trip. He also wanted to show me all the really cool places that he knew from his many visits over there throughout his life. His mother had immigrated to the US from Ireland. He showed me many places that the average tourist would never know existed never mind seeing them.
Harry passed away back in January of 2021 of cancer which his doctors never picked up even after having to go to the hospital many times for treatment for his heart disease and his hip replacement surgery.
I tell you this because sometimes we can bring back some of the best times we ever had when we find something that anchors us back to that time in our lives.
For me, this music always does that and leaves me in a contemplative mood.
I am not sad about Harry’s passing as he had an incredible life on so many levels traveling anywhere in the world he wanted, having an art collection that he loved that was worthy of any high-end museum, and having friends that truly loved and cared about him even with his many irritating ways.
He had green eyes with a sparkle in them, knew how to tell amazing stories, understood the art that he collected, loved to share amazing food with me usually on the water, somewhere, and knew much more about philosophy than your average UPS truck loader which is what he did for 23 years of his life during the middle of the night so the trucks were ready to go for delivery first thing in the morning.
Think about those people who have touched your life in a special way and who have gone to the other side.
Figure out a way to bring them back to life in a special way through those things that can anchor you to their positive influences on you. This is especially important in those cases where you may have mixed feelings about the person.
Trust me Harry and I had many times when I just could not deal with him and his negative ways of dealing with me at times due to his own issues…and yet…there were so many amazing experiences that he gave me through the 15 years that I knew him that to leave those out would be depriving me of some of the best times of my life.
Relationships can be complicated…and our job is to recall the best that they had to give us and let go of the rest once the person has gone to the other side.
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Suzanne Kellner-Zinck founded Dawning Visions Hypnosis in 2002, She has become an innovator in the use of hypnotism and neuro-linguistic programming in the areas of obsessive compulsive disorders such as: eating disorders, sexual addiction and substance abuse as well as working with those with anxiety and mood disorders.
Her clients have come to work with her from across the United States and as far away as Africa to help them to finally be freed from these emotional issues that once ruled their lives. Today she is in the process of bringing her work to many more in the form of ebooks and other downloadable formats.
She is a member of American Holistic Medical Association and the American College for Advancement in Medicine.
Prior to founding Dawning Visions Hypnosis, Kellner-Zinck worked within vendor programs for the mentally ill working to help them to live up to their fullest potential. Many of her previous clients were able to move out on their own and find fulfilling work.
Kellner-Zinck is a Certified Trainer of Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic programing through Tad James Company, Inc. and a Master Hypnotist and Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming through Advanced Neuro Dynamics. She holds a bachelor’s degree in education and political studies from Curry College.
Dawning Visions Hypnosis is teaching people that they can indeed leave their unwanted behaviors behind as they move forward to living fulfilling and joy filled lives.
