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Master Hypnotist Suzanne Kellner-Zinck shares her thoughts on maryanne Williamson’s book “Tears to Triumph”.
Oct 10 2016
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Master Hypnotist Suzanne Kellner-Zinck shares her thoughts on maryanne Williamson’s book “Tears to Triumph”.
Oct 06 2016
Vol. 382, October 6, 2016 – 5 Benefits of Being Positive
While reading the International Hypnosis Federation’s newsletter, Hyp-News of the Day, I came across a wonderful article by a colleague of mine, Frank Hopkins, called Benefits of Positivity explaining 5 ways that your life will function much better with a positive attitude. Here they are:
It is clear that staying positive of mind is an important part of living a good to great life. With that in mind, here are some things you can do to increase your own sense of optimism.
7. Invite some friends over to cook and enjoy a meal together and play some board games,
cards or do some Tarot readings. I love doing this with my friends, and maybe you would
too!
8. If you are a creative sort and most humans are in one area or another, get to it already. Too
often people forget to exercise their creative outlets and then wonder why they feel like they
lost themselves. If you are not using the left side of your brain, doesn’t it make sense that
you may be feeling you lost a part of yourself?
9. If you are in a job or career that you dislike, be honest with yourself about it. You spend way
too many hours at work to dislike what you are doing. Take an assessment of the things that
you enjoy doing and the things that you are good at, and then sprinkle in some dream type
aspects to create an income producing activity that sings to your heart. I did this when
I figured out that I hated corporate America, and I never got further then the entry level there.
I also realized that I was a lousy employee. As such I needed to figure out a way to make my
own money working for myself that allowed me to do what I loved to do. This includes
travel to all sorts of places all over the globe as well as being creative and autonomous while
having a great time doing the work itself. I have found the perfect modality in health care to
allow me to do everything I ever wanted to do and much, more that I didn’t even know I had in
me like: writing 4 downloadable books, doing a weekly podcast, doing a weekly weblog, and
creating products – while meeting the coolest people on the planet and learning from the best
in the world at what they do.
10. Make sure you get enough sleep each night, between 7-8 hours for most adults, are drinking
plenty of cool, clean refreshing water (add fresh lemon and/or cucumbers for extra flavor and
more nutrients).
11. Eat whole foods, which means combining one item foods to make your recipes replacing
sugar and artificial sweetener with a little uncooked, 100% pure organic honey. Eat healthy
fats like: avocados, coconut oil, nuts, seeds and flaxseed, oily fish for their omega 3s and
some saturated fats as well – only about 3 ounces every couple days – thrown in a salad or
stir fry is perfect. And how about a couple of pieces of delicious 70% Cocoa Dark chocolate?
It’s one of the healthiest foods on the planet!
12. Get yourself some fun activity where you are moving your body. We humans were never
made to sit for 10 hours a day at some fool desk typing on computers. No, indeed. We were
meant to be out there running, twisting and bending all day long till the sun went down and
then go off to sleep. Go find fun activities to do where you are moving your body
while not at work. Not only will you have fun, you will also have much better mobility, getting
that synovial fluid working in your joints, keeping your bones and muscles strong. You will
have a healthier functioning body that will bring you an optimistic attitude feeling good and
healthy.
13. We people of the 21st century feel that if we aren’t “doing” something then we aren’t being
productive. Well, I have some good news for you. The most productive people that ever
lived napped regularly, took many hours just to think, which is when their best ideas for
creating something wonderful came into their minds. So, it’s going to do you well to allow
yourself to “just be.”
14. Take some time for self-hypnosis, meditation and/or prayer. Getting in touch with our higher
consciousness is a great way to give our brains the break they require as well as allowing
us to calm ourselves down; body, mind and spirit. Who knows, you may come up with
something really cool for yourself to do while in this altered state of being.
There you go, you now have every reason to be a positive, optimistic and therefore happy person don’t you? You even have a game plan to get it done. Go ahead and put these ideas to into play for your self. You may even outlive you longest living relative happily and healthfully. What do you have to lose, but that which is not working for you anyway?
Oct 03 2016
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Learned about how to tap into your authentic, congruent self. Included is a hypnotic induction to help connect you to your authentic self.
Sep 29 2016
Vol. 381, September 29, 2016 – Turning Tragedy, Trauma and Tension into Adventure, Ease and Calm
For many years I have had many challenges to overcome myself. I am not going to bore you with all the details, however I will tell you some of the things that I have learned along the way, so that if you are feeling challenged in some way today, you can see how it can serve to bring you to a much better place, even a place of authority in your chosen field.
I was speaking to my webman one day last year when he told me exactly why it is that he feels that I am as good as I am at helping others to clear their traumas as I am, because you know, he could NEVER do what I did, ever! Really,! That is what he said, and yet, knowing him the way I know him, over the past decade plus, I know that he has helped many people to deal with some of the hardest of tragedies for decades at a time. So, maybe he was just reflecting his learning onto me without realizing it. And, yes I did indeed bring this understanding to his mind as we spoke that day.
He told me that it was because I have had to deal with so many issues all through my life – from not speaking at all till a speech therapist was employed to teach me at the age of 5, to the 14 years I suffered with both bipolar 2 (non-psychotic type luckily for me) and bronchial asthma (that the doctor had no idea in how to treat, none of the medications he prescribed worked any longer, to the meningioma tumor (thankfully benign) on the covering of my brain which required 6 weeks of treatment at a cancer center. And, that doesn’t include all the drama and trauma that has played out in my family of origin throughout my life – issues that having a deeper understanding of mental health then my four sisters, I was called on to help deal with, repeatedly during my adulthood.
So what were the blessings from all of these challenges?
So, there you go, 5 ways to turn you tragedies, traumas and tensions into adventure, ease and calm, if, and only if, you are willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to overcome your challenges, finding the wonderful wisdom from having done so, and then sharing it with whomever can benefit.
Sep 26 2016
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Spiritual musings from Master hypnotist Suzanne Kellner-Zinck
Sep 22 2016
Vol. 380, September 22, 2016 – Borderline Personality Disorder or “BPD” as it is Commonly Known: What Exactly is It & How Do You Deal with It?
Of all the too frequently uttered phrases in the world of mental illness is “borderline personality disorder.” The only problem is that it is a “throw away diagnosis,” too often given, because of the way in which the mental health experts use it to categorize women in particular, that they don’t know how to treat.
It is believed that between 1 to 6% of the population have this illness. My mother is one that I know very intimately. She has always been fairly open about her diagnosis, because one of the symptoms of this particular class of people is their inability to recognize personal boundaries in any way.
I am going to give you 10 signs that the person that you may be dealing with (or perhaps your self) has borderline personality disorder. These are the one group of clients with whom I have to stay totally centered on them, with them being put off if I share metaphors of growth and healing from anyone else’s experience, especially my own. The reason for this is that they feel their own boundaries have been over ridden in such cases.
Given the “special handling” they require and because hypnosis is really not the best method to use with these folks, I do my best to not bring BPD people into my practice.
I have found that the easiest way to deal with a person with BPD is first to let them know that I am not going to abandon them, because if they feel like they are being ignored they will indeed act out. I had one client who was thrown out of three mental health practices. Her way of getting back was to put smiley stickers all over one of her psychologist’s cars, with another she played with the magnets of who was “in” and who was “out” of the office on the board of one practice confusing everyone, and with the last one, she stood outside another’s practice forcing the practitioner to acknowledge her.
When speaking to these folks, you give short easy to understand statements, almost as if you were speaking to a three year old giving one step-at-a-time directions. It helps them to fully understand and be able to implement what you are requesting them to do while dealing with their emotions or behaviors. And, that is the other thing, it is always stated as a request, or they will feel threatened and act out accordingly.
BPD people are very difficult to treat because though they are very intelligent, they have a very difficult time implementing the ideas into their lives. They understand what they are to do. However, being able to do it is a constant challenge for them.
For your own sanity, do your best to spend small amounts of time with anyone who may share the symptoms outlined in this posting, no more then a couple hours at a time if you feel psychically drained being with them.
If you do have BPD, the best thing that you can do is to find a practitioner that specializes in treating BPDs, because they have the patience and understanding along with the tools and techniques to best help you.
The client that I was speaking of earlier was a wonderful mother according to her husband of over 25 years when she came to see me. She was terribly depressed most of the time, and had a glass of wine from the time she awakened till she went to sleep at night – her “IV of sanity” as she put it to me. She wanted to stop her drinking which is why she came in to see me, but it was something that was beyond my ability to help her with. What she did receive though was unconditional love from me, and very clear boundaries regarding “appropriate” and “inappropriate” behavior. She never tried to kill herself again as far as I know. She also learned from her husband during one of our sessions, how he admired her great mothering, telling her that her work in the home with their four accomplished and happy grown children, was infinitely more important than any of the work he did to bring in the income necessary to take care of their family.
So, there are some people who are capable of living and loving BPDs. I believe my father was one of those people. Because though my mother acted out quite often, he stayed by her. They did many things together and also had their own interests which they did with others. Growing up with her could be challenging at times. One of her psychologist let us know that by the time we were 2 years old we had outgrown her emotionally.
However, this is another thing that is interesting about these folks. Though they may have little insight into themselves, they have great insights and understandings into others at times. I found this to be true with all the BPD’s that I have worked with over the years, as well as my mother. So, please don’t discount their ability to be helpful during those times when they are feeling good and are fun to be around. I gained many insights from my mother that were shockingly on target, as well as from my previous clients who all had the very great challenges of dealing with an illness that none of them requested, yet had to learn how to deal with to the best of their ability.
Sep 19 2016
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How do you best care for your physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual well being. Find out what Master hypnotist Suzanne Kellner-Zinck has to say.