This was a question I received from a person on Quora and this is how I answered it: The one thing that I have learned is to stop sharing my personal heartaches and negative experiences with the family. They don’t even really know the person that they are commenting on but think they know the …
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Oct 26 2022
How Do Therapist Help Their Patients To Process Trauma (including C-PTSD) Vol.603, October 27, 2022
This was another great question from a person on Quora, and this is how I answered it: I am answering this question as the hypnotist and neuro-linguistic master practitioner I am. Surprisingly easily and quickly with the help of my client’s subconscious mind. With neuro-linguistic programming techniques, we easily take the emotional charge off the …
Oct 20 2022
As A Therapist, Do You Take Notes During The Session: Why Or Why Not? Vol. 602, October 20, 2022
This was a question that a person on Quora asked. It is an important question based on the feedback that my clients have given me over the years. Here is how I answered it: This is a great question because my clients have told me that they are very glad that I do actually take …
Oct 18 2022
Doing The Hard Things – Vol. 609, Dec. 8, 2022
Today we are going to speak about something that most people do not want to pay any attention to and that is ‘doing the hard thing.’ There are many areas in life when it is best to ‘do the hard thing’ even though every cell in your body is screaming for you to do anything. …
Oct 13 2022
What Should I & my Therapist Do? He no longer knows how to help me. Vol. 601, October 13, 2022
This was an excellent question that ought to be asked much more often by therapists. I have found in the many years of doing mental health work, too many therapists hold on to clients sometimes for decades when they have no idea how to truly help them. Here is how I answered this question: This …
Oct 06 2022
My Therapist Now Tells Me That I Don’t Have Bipolar, I Have Borderline Personality Disorder. Any Advice On How to Deal With This? Vol. 600, October 6, 2022
This was an interesting question and one that comes up too frequently with misdiagnosis between 2 mental illnesses that seem to be quite similar. However, there are very distinct differences between the two. Here is how I answered this person’s question: There are some very clear differences in the two diagnoses so let us take …
Sep 29 2022
How Do I Build Psychological Resiliency – Vol. 599, Sept. 29, 2022
This was a great question that a person on Quora asked. Here is how I answered it: After working with all types of folks in mental health for about 30 years now here are the ways you can build your psychological resistance. Take on new experiences especially if you find them a little scary. When …